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Wanted - daytime venue in Durban Hillcrest area

Mon, 01 Mar 2010 00:14:12 -0600

Hi,

My friend-with-benefits and I are looking for a discreet venue to get together for lunchtime sex in the Durban Hillcrest area.

She also has this fantasy to be seen having sex without knowing that someone is watching, so if you're keen to watch and not get involved, here's your opportunity!

Email me at just_a_mirror@hotmail.com so that we can make arrangements.

Please only reply if you can SERIOUSLY help out! No bullshitters.

Wanted - daytime venue in Durban Hillcrest area

Mon, 01 Mar 2010 00:11:57 -0600

ciao

Sun, 17 Jan 2010 09:46:06 -0600

italian guy working in umhlanga and loking for some fun...

wrote me if you are interested

Adult websites,

Tue, 01 Dec 2009 21:14:04 -0600

Tried an Adult Dating Site lately?
There are scammers, fake profiles, rude chatters, crude emails, rampant solicitation, messy site navigation and yet…. there are millions of people around the world joining adult oriented dating sites and the numbers are growing fast. In the US alone, one website has over 15,515,000 + members, worldwide that number is double at over 31 million.

So what is the number one reason so many people join? Freedom. Freedom of expression, freedom to share your most innermost fantasies without fear of judgment, in short, freedom to be yourself is the potential reward.

In a culture that is predominantly puritan in its’ societal rules - this freedom, to expose your innermost sexual preferences and needs, meets a need for many who are frustrated by the judgmental nature of our peers. We may be inundated with passion and sex on the screen but the free love of the 60’s has been replaced with fear of sexual diseases, right wing intolerance, exposure and subsequent loss of professional credibility, loss of acceptance by your community and loss of one’s reputation.

One of the most challenging aspects of dating is that one never really knows what the person that one is dating truly likes sexually until long into the relationship, if truly ever. There is a fear of exposure, judgment and shyness that is inherent with a face to face encounter. Everyone is on their best behavior and reluctant to expose the intimate preferences that each of us possess. Women in particular do not usually feel comfortable expressing their “kinky” side for fear of being labeled easy, a whore or worse. Men are somewhat more open in expressing their desires but less so with a woman he really likes. He will not want to scare her off by sharing his “naughty” side. The fact that there are 10 times as many single men looking for single women on these adult sites as vice-versa is evidence that men do have not only a strong desire for this kind of openness, but also are less afraid to express and seek it. Of course, their affinity for porn is also in large measure responsible for the lopsided numbers.

The sites offer a unique opportunity to peel back most of the layers that can take years of discovery to achieve from a partner. There is an instant perceived intimacy that can be enormously erotic in nature. You are allowed to express every part of your sexual self without inhibition and under the initial cover of anonymity. Obviously this anonymity can lead to enormous abuse by some users who create false profiles, but the core attraction remains the same.

The options for websites is quite varied from general interest like Adultfriendfinder.com,
Wildmatch.com, SexSearch.com, SexyAds.net, Hotmatchup.com, IwantU.com, Adultloveline.com, RedPersonals.com to very specific sites geared toward any specific predilection or preference you might have. There are even useful directories that review most of the sites and how they operate – directoryofdating.com and datingsitesreviews.com.

There is an enormous attraction due to the fact that you can type in your every naughty fantasy and preference and in seconds search for those who match your desires. It can save so much time and aggravation. Many of us have spent years with partners who didn’t really meet our sexual needs or who were to “vanilla” and unapproachable about being adventurous in bed. This is one outlet where one can explore those avenues and see if they are really what you want. If nothing else, there is a lot of visual stimulation available to feed your imagination.

Unfortunately for men out there it isn’t as easy to hook up as you might think. The odds are stacked against you. Men will be bombarded by solicitations from women wanting payment for a hookup or fake bot responses. However, there are many legitimate women available, although the young, hot babes are far and few between. You will find mostly 40’s plus women who have embraced their sexuality and are willing to take a risk. As there are 10 to 1 men to women, you had better have your best foot forward to make a first impression, and that does not equate to putting a pic of your privates on public display. Most women still want to see a man’s face first and then proceed to get to know you. But many men, being visual by nature, love the idea of being seen and exposed. The mere thought of women seeing their pic, is often enough to illicit their arousal, and that’s fine if that’s enough for them. For those looking to actually have a face to face with a woman a more tactful approach is more effective.

Women, on the other hand, have to weed through dozens of “hits” via email or winks or whatever method that website employs. As a result, they pay most attention to those who take a personal approach to contacting them. A reference to the fact that they actually read your profile is immensely helpful. I can’t tell you how many emails I’ve gotten that say “you’re hot, I love you pic” and I don’t have a pic posted.

The men who’ve made it through my scammer, player, married, and disgust filter are relatively few, even fewer are those that I agreed to meet. The results of the personal meet ups were surprisingly good. I’ve managed to establish some long term friendships, exciting adventures, and had a couple of discards due to chemistry. Of course, I also acquired one stalker, but that’s another story.

Use with caution, listen to your gut, be honest without premature personal exposure, and test the waters for yourself if adventure is something you seek.

Turkish??

Thu, 22 Oct 2009 03:02:06 -0500

:shy:Any turkish woman here??

dogging sites in arkansas

Thu, 15 Oct 2009 00:48:44 -0500

Does anyone know of any dogging sites in Arkansas? Locations and best times to go would help greatly. Are there others in Arkansas that share my interest? Ladies especially welcomed to write.

seeking NSA discreet relationships

Mon, 28 Sep 2009 15:15:29 -0500

Hi there...i'm new to this so here goes. I'm a married White male of 45 years seeking NSA discreet relationships with married or single ladies between 18 - 45...are there any in the Durban or Pinetown area. I'm not too particular of nationality...

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Sun, 27 Sep 2009 23:13:39 -0500

Looking.

Sun, 27 Sep 2009 23:00:38 -0500

I am looking for a female I would say younger than me but if there are any in here they would all be younger than myself that would care to chat, email or interested in making friends.

I perfer well younger than me to chat with because a lot of times some folks just need someone that has been around a while to talk to and ask questions and maybe advice.

Just basically more fun as many my age are like or seem like they are dying or well lost the zest for life heck I am 60 and still trying to enjoy it anyway I can.

I am sometimes brutally honest but hopefully not to the point of hurting people if I think it will hurt someone I sort of beg out of an answer. If you ask a question expect a straight answer, have learned many years ago keep it straight forward.

Anyway if anyone is interested give me a holler.

Have you slept with someone because you were drunk.

Sun, 27 Sep 2009 00:04:58 -0500

Have you ever gotten drunk and woken up next to someone you should not of or wish you had not?
It could be that you were involved with someone else or it could just be that you thought there were slightly less attractive that a mule with the Mange..
Maybe you didnt do the deed..but maybe you at least hooked up with them..give us your details.

Things we have done while drunk....

Sat, 26 Sep 2009 23:50:36 -0500

Years ago I lived in a block of flats where our front doors were only about 3 metres apart.
One night after drinking two litrers of port with my next door neighbour, I was so drunk that I had to crawl on my hands and knees to my place.....only 3 metres away.

I remember looking up at my door thinking I could never reach up that high so I slept on my door mat.

Beer Goggles?

Sat, 26 Sep 2009 23:42:03 -0500

When girls get drunk...do ugly guys suddenly become more attractive to them.?

in short, do women get beer goggles.?

Handsy???

Sat, 26 Sep 2009 23:39:49 -0500

I was at a party last night thrown by some co-workers. One of the female hosts got drunk very early and was sitting in my lap, telling me that she wanted to ... well, she was beyond flirting and into the category that men usually dominate : getting "handsy". I was flattered but it became embarrassing for me and for her (our bosses were there) and I took her to a private area of the apartment, gave her a big hug and told her I thought she was sweet, pretended to go to the bathroom but instead left the party. Right thing to do?

Sex

Sat, 26 Sep 2009 07:17:15 -0500

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mmm

Fri, 25 Sep 2009 11:06:36 -0500

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BJ ????

Thu, 24 Sep 2009 06:27:45 -0500

I have been having sex with a woman who is really good at giving me a BJ.The thing is, when I cum and she continues to suck me, it feels as if I'm going to urinate, so I make her stop. My question is..If I let her continue, which I know she would like to, will I end up urinating or have another orgasm or something altogether different ??

Want to start a porn company

Mon, 21 Sep 2009 05:13:15 -0500

I am looking for one girl in Durban who wants to be a 50% partner in a porn company if you keen mail me on girlsinthenude@yahoo.com

Drunk fun

Sun, 23 Aug 2009 00:53:05 -0500

Durban Woman

Thu, 06 Aug 2009 05:28:02 -0500

Been chatting to a few durban ladies from the site, but when the time comes to meet they fade away. I'm just curious, but surley if you go as far as registering on a site like this with a profile that states ....looking for some NSA fun... you actually want to play with a few guys.

Are there any woman left in Durbs that want to play??? Or do we need to move to JHB?

Single Male

Mon, 20 Jul 2009 12:21:43 -0500

Asking for help for the single male. Anyone out there willing to help out a single male in tips or whatever for meeting people?