Lubricants and Swingers.....

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Almost all of us have used lubricants to keep the passion going without pain, unless of course pain is part of the agenda. But, assuming the former, what kinds of lubricants are out there and are there creative ones for an unprepared heat of the moment interlude?

Thin water based lubricants are the most forgiving on bed-sheets, floors and furniture, and are usually condom friendly, but while they don’t stain as much they dry up quickly. This can be solved by adding a little saliva periodically, but unless you want to keep adding lube or spit, there are other options. Also, this is the least likely to help in a Jacuzzi….and we all know that water by itself in a Jacuzzi is not a very good lube.

There are thicker “new and improved” water based lubes available, which are also condom friendly and are more appropriate for the additional lubrication required for anal sex. The thickness varies based on how much cellulose (a complex carbohydrate) and the amount and consistency of glycerin used. Various flavors are available in these, as in the thin lubes, and all that is usually calorie free due to non-sugar sweeteners. In case you were wondering, complex carbs (the cellulose in these) are good cards and won’t add to your spare tire or ass....LOL.

Oil based lubes are the latex condom’s mortal enemy. Unless you want the condom to look like swiss cheese within a few minutes, don’t mix these two. The cum shots won’t be in the condom and instead will be happily residing deep in the pussy. Not what one usually wants in recreational and multi-partner situations. Also, the more petroleum based the oil lube is, the harder it will be to wash off.

If you have a little extra coin, check out the new silicone based lubes. These are great for longer lube action, work well with condoms and you don’t have to reapply a lot for multiple cock insertions. Also, GREAT in the Jacuzzi….or at least the best there is. The lube stays effective far longer than any water based lube for an extended naughty good time.

When a spontaneous meet-and-great turns hot and there are no lubes around (better to stay prepared and many of these lubes come in easy-carry sampler sizes), think natural. For a long time Crisco has been a popular vegetable based lube for both vag and anal sex and washes off rather easily. Failing that, remember what Marlon Brando used in the 1972 film Last Tango in Paris for the anal sex scene…..a stick of butter. Again, remember the incompatible latex condom on this last one.

OK, what about those sex prolongation gels which lube and help men keep at it longer? These are simply thicker water soluble gels with some various natural goodies like Ginseng, but the main actor is the tiny bit of benzocaine mixed in. Remember, this goes inside the condom not out…unless being used by the well acquainted bareback couple. The gel should not touch the clit, since the desensitization will occur there as well and be more of a pleasure block than a help to all you lucky multi-orgasmic women out there. It does not hurt the vaginal tissues and does not desensitize the g-spot as much.

Regarding anal sex specifically, more lube is required than for vaginal sex. These are simply two different organs. The vagina lubes well upon excitement with gobs of thin secretions the rule rather than the exception, up-to and including the ladies who can cum with more juice than a man. The anal area lubes with some mucus secreting glands, but the area is way more delicate and the amount of secretion is usually way less. So, to avoid the pain and trauma and guarantee multiple repeat pleasurable events, or multiple partners that hot naughty evening, use a lot of thicker lube.

By the way, most do not contain Nonoxynol-9 ( a spermicidal agent found on condoms and some contraceptive foams). Even if some do, Nonoxynol-9 will not protect you against viruses and bacteria and the amount would be totally inadequate to handle a wad of sperm for contraception, much less multiple cum shots in the same pussy. Most of the sperm still has to be caught in a condom for adequate contraception. So, if you’re bare-backing, which is never a good group or casual sex idea, be sure you know who you are with.