Strap on Fun??

[BiAngel]

For valentines day I'd like to surprise my lover and use a strap on on him. I've not even attempted anything like this before and I want to be in charge, the boss, the master whatever. what I say goes, so I need to get some good ideas flowing. do men cum just from the anal stimulation, or do you have to work the front too? What positions are best? Any other creative ideas welcome. I'd like to restrain him with tape but if he's on his stomache and I'm giving it to him from behind, I won't be able to get at my other favorite part the joy stick. Feeling dumb for asking but please tell me how this act unfolds.