I've recently started to realize that, although I prefer women far more so (for fantasy, and in terms of dating and lust and love), I'm probably to a degree bisexual. I've been with other men before , safely, on many occasions, however I primarily look to date only women and it's been a long time since I've even been with another guy.
Is it something that would be repellent to most women to be involved in a relationship or situation in which another guy is brought in and her man (meaning me, for example) and the other guy get it on with each other while also both of us are getting it on with her? A fantasy for me has been to have a girl I'm with, or dating, be involved by either watching or participating , for instance I would do her and then later I would do him (again I stress "safely") while he orally pleasures her, and that sort of thing. For some absurd reason it turns me on a whole lot to think of a woman watching me and another guy, and enjoying seeing it, but I don't think that's something women get into. And I can't very well suggest to a girl I'm dating that we look at bisexual porno or something together either.
I haven't got any confidence in relating this kind of thing to women I've dated , in fact I've never even remotely had the courage to tell any one of my friends or family (much less any girl I date) that I've even ever been with members of the same sex before (although again I have to stress I'm tested, I'm clean, and I'm always safe , so it's not as though I'm hiding anything malicious from them either). There's just so much more stigma attached to it for we men than for women, I feel. Thanks for any thoughts.
i have the same fantasy.. and i have brought it up with women i have dated, and they don't seem to impressed with the idea.. even those who are bisexual themselves.
im beginning to think it only happens in the movies..
(01-24-2009 05:05 PM)TheOne Wrote: [ -> ]I've recently started to realize that, although I prefer women far more so (for fantasy, and in terms of dating and lust and love), I'm probably to a degree bisexual. I've been with other men before , safely, on many occasions, however I primarily look to date only women and it's been a long time since I've even been with another guy.
Is it something that would be repellent to most women to be involved in a relationship or situation in which another guy is brought in and her man (meaning me, for example) and the other guy get it on with each other while also both of us are getting it on with her? A fantasy for me has been to have a girl I'm with, or dating, be involved by either watching or participating , for instance I would do her and then later I would do him (again I stress "safely") while he orally pleasures her, and that sort of thing. For some absurd reason it turns me on a whole lot to think of a woman watching me and another guy, and enjoying seeing it, but I don't think that's something women get into. And I can't very well suggest to a girl I'm dating that we look at bisexual porno or something together either.
I haven't got any confidence in relating this kind of thing to women I've dated , in fact I've never even remotely had the courage to tell any one of my friends or family (much less any girl I date) that I've even ever been with members of the same sex before (although again I have to stress I'm tested, I'm clean, and I'm always safe , so it's not as though I'm hiding anything malicious from them either). There's just so much more stigma attached to it for we men than for women, I feel. Thanks for any thoughts.
(03-08-2010 11:47 PM)skyclad Wrote: [ -> ] (01-24-2009 05:05 PM)TheOne Wrote: [ -> ]I've recently started to realize that, although I prefer women far more so (for fantasy, and in terms of dating and lust and love), I'm probably to a degree bisexual. I've been with other men before , safely, on many occasions, however I primarily look to date only women and it's been a long time since I've even been with another guy.
Is it something that would be repellent to most women to be involved in a relationship or situation in which another guy is brought in and her man (meaning me, for example) and the other guy get it on with each other while also both of us are getting it on with her? A fantasy for me has been to have a girl I'm with, or dating, be involved by either watching or participating , for instance I would do her and then later I would do him (again I stress "safely") while he orally pleasures her, and that sort of thing. For some absurd reason it turns me on a whole lot to think of a woman watching me and another guy, and enjoying seeing it, but I don't think that's something women get into. And I can't very well suggest to a girl I'm dating that we look at bisexual porno or something together either.
I haven't got any confidence in relating this kind of thing to women I've dated , in fact I've never even remotely had the courage to tell any one of my friends or family (much less any girl I date) that I've even ever been with members of the same sex before (although again I have to stress I'm tested, I'm clean, and I'm always safe , so it's not as though I'm hiding anything malicious from them either). There's just so much more stigma attached to it for we men than for women, I feel. Thanks for any thoughts.
why ? it happens to be hard to find a guy who likes a true bisexual experience,since most men are st8 or gay. truely bisexual guys are a rarity. hate the labels people put on sexual roles btw. we still lokking for him !!
(03-08-2010 11:47 PM)skyclad Wrote: [ -> ] (01-24-2009 05:05 PM)TheOne Wrote: [ -> ]I've recently started to realize that, although I prefer women far more so (for fantasy, and in terms of dating and lust and love), I'm probably to a degree bisexual. I've been with other men before , safely, on many occasions, however I primarily look to date only women and it's been a long time since I've even been with another guy.
Is it something that would be repellent to most women to be involved in a relationship or situation in which another guy is brought in and her man (meaning me, for example) and the other guy get it on with each other while also both of us are getting it on with her? A fantasy for me has been to have a girl I'm with, or dating, be involved by either watching or participating , for instance I would do her and then later I would do him (again I stress "safely") while he orally pleasures her, and that sort of thing. For some absurd reason it turns me on a whole lot to think of a woman watching me and another guy, and enjoying seeing it, but I don't think that's something women get into. And I can't very well suggest to a girl I'm dating that we look at bisexual porno or something together either.
I haven't got any confidence in relating this kind of thing to women I've dated , in fact I've never even remotely had the courage to tell any one of my friends or family (much less any girl I date) that I've even ever been with members of the same sex before (although again I have to stress I'm tested, I'm clean, and I'm always safe , so it's not as though I'm hiding anything malicious from them either). There's just so much more stigma attached to it for we men than for women, I feel. Thanks for any thoughts.
why ? it happens to be hard to find a guy who likes a true bisexual experience,since most men are st8 or gay. truely bisexual guys are a rarity. hate the labels people put on sexual roles btw. we still lokking for him !!
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